Several hookup tips for guys

Many guys around me often ask “how do I usually find one night hookup?” It seems to them that I am quite a master in this field. I often got a lot of questions of this kind. Actually, I don’t have many tricks in this, but I do have my own understanding with the issue of hooking up with girls. Here I would like to tell you some tips of mine.

First, be honest. Honesty is cherished by everyone and it will always be something that gets you right on everything. Even though hookup seems to be something that is quick and won’t be able to last, but even a one night stand appreciates honesty. Therefore, do not tell your girl that you are open to committed relationships when you are only looking for one night dating. Just be straight-forward with them. If they are looking for the same as you are, then you are on. Even if they are not, they would appreciate your honesty and you can even get a bonus one night.

Second, be the lead. Girls tend to be more reserved even for those who are looking for hookups. They need you to take the lead. You should be the one that initiate a conversation, and you should be the one that propose for a meeting in real life. If you are going to meet in person, think up the place you will go to and the things you would do. Don’t just wait there and hoping she would be the leader. However, you shouldn’t be too aggressive. A proper amount of leadership would release your charm, while too much is just being rude. Remember, if she resists intimate body contact, back out.

Third, keep away your past affairs away. For both of you, this connection might not be romantic and serious, but don’t let her feel like a total ordinary person to you. In other words, if you invite her to come to your apartment for a one night hookup, please make sure there is no makeups, panties, toothbrushes, or other things that belongs to other girls or indicate that she is not the only girl who spend the night with you. She knows she is not the only one, but there is no need to point it out.

Forth, be patient. For many guys, they are being pretty blunt with what they want. They hope to bring a girl to bed after just a few talks with her. They think they are being straight-forward. However, girls need romantic and spontaneity, even one night hookups. You need to give them a reason to sleep with you rather than just “you are good in bed”, or “I have a big dick”. She needs time to feel that she is not forced or tricked to be in bed with you. Girls have their own rhythm of action. They don’t need to be persuaded to come home with you if they have already made up their mind. Find it on hookup apps.