Several rules for one night hookups

Sometimes, people just want sexual hookups and have no intention for real hearts and flowers.
It is okay to admit that you just want one night hookup rather than serious relationships. Many people feel this way in this society and it is absolutely normal. Therefore, if you want to hookup with a girl, don’t hesitate. Be open and honest with her. Not all girls want to be in a committed relationship, so don’t make random assumption before she confirms herself. However, it is vital to be honest with people if you just want hookups. Honest can always prevail.

Stay sober
Theoretically speaking, a drunken one-night stand seems fun and exciting. As a matter of fact, it might only be a rash and chaotic disaster. Alcohol will affect your sexual capability and the experience of the sexual quality, although a certain amount of alcohol does can boost one’s confidence and loose things up. Besides, how can you expect yourself to remember to wear condom while you cannot even remember your room number. I think everybody should know the consequence of not wearing condom, which could not only result in unplanned pregnancy, but also the potential danger to STDs.

Be you.
Many people have such stereotype that those slickers who tend to say many fancy things to girls can get the biggest chance to get laid with girls. As a matter of fact, most girls do not like such playboys and they often see such kind of guys right through when they approach them. Being yourself and being honest is the principle that never dies. You will be just attractive yourself. There is no need for you to be sleezy and pretend to be someone else. You are the best version of yourself. Even though you are looking for one night hookups on hookup app, that doesn’t mean girls won’t like someone who is true to them.

Be cool
Don’t overstress sexual activity when you are having a conversation at the first time. I know lovemaking might be your purpose, but it still needs sufficient foreplay, which includes flirting, conversation, getting to know each other, etc. Don’t expose your purpose too soon, even if she knows what you are up for. It is a nice trick to keep her interested and tangled.

Prevent obvious red-flag phrases
Such cliché as “would you like to come upstairs for a coffee?” is judged by many people for a reason. Once you mentioned words such as “my place” or “private”, your conversation possibly would come to an end. Try to slide things into bed slowly. Many females are worried about being judged of being slutty and easy. You should give them no reason to feel that way. When it really happened, girls can still tell their friends that “I never thought it would happen”. One night dating should be as natural and spontaneous as possible.